Queen Jean
Several weeks ago, I walked into a guest night for Diamond Jubilee Chorus and yesterday, walked on stage with 27 sisters-in-song, under the direction of the amazing Jean Barford, affectionately known as Queen Jean. What an extraordinary experience it was to be in-person for competition, after two years of social distancing via zoom, caused by the Pandemic.
Over these rather short weeks, I’ve become more and more enamored with Jean and her presence. My 2nd rehearsal was her legendary riser placement. As each of us came forward to sing a couple of phrases from the ballad, she reached out her hand to hold ours and didn’t let go until we finished. That single act of support, amidst feeling both so vulnerable to her, and also to the room of singers watching, made an indelible mark in my heart. Her skilled supportive presence, while calling forth a necessary, uncomfortable action, is perhaps a reflection of her 50-years directing experience. However, I would suggest it goes much deeper. It is the love that she radiates, while demanding excellence within this magical craft of barbershop singing, grounding a beautiful marriage of caring and creativity.
I feel very privileged to sit at the feet of this master. Her appreciation for me was so palpable at that initial guest evening, that I immediately felt embraced and welcomed, truly before she really even knew who I was or what I could do. Jean’s heart sees into the hearts of others and I dare say, she is not alone, for many on the risers across this world would say the same of their beloved Directors. This may be one of the sweetest gifts of Sweet Adelines. Sisters-in-song guided by great leaders, who know how to evoke our very best.
Thank you, Queen Jean, for the amazing journey thus far. I, for one, cannot wait to see and hear what you bring forth from us next!